Once you use your charms and flirting techniques to obtain her phone number you will feel like a king of the world. This is not the end of your journey and the next big step will be to call her and set up a date. Guys, pay attention to this part particularly, since at this stage most of you could mess up. Imagine, just going through all the trouble to get her phone number and at the end just waste the chance by making a bad impression over the phone.
The seduction game can drastically change while engaging a phone conversation with a girl. The environment at this point is completely different than if you would be talking to her in real. The first thing, she cannot see you and you can only rely on your verbal abilities to get her in the mood. Second thing, she maybe forgot who you are so you need to remind her where you met and how. If you don’t think you will know exactly what to say and how to make an easy and successful flow of the conversation, here are a few useful tips to help you out.
Two successful phone seduction strategies
- – “Make her laugh”. The first barrier will be to engage a successful phone conversation without letting her know that you are nervous, which is easily done just by using humor. At the start you need to be able to get her mood up and get her to LAUGH. If this happens, she won’t hang up the phone on you and the course of the conversation will go to your favor and you’ll most likely be able to set up the first date. The objective of this game is to keep her entertained long enough so you could tell her all you have on your mind.
- – “The Strategy of a Cliffhanger”. The second barrier is connected to the genuine interest. If she seems to be bored with the conversation, be sure that you won’t be able to set up a date and spend time with her. You could let the conversation flow to the direction of a story that will have an open ending, all in the purpose of making her wish she sees you. Curiosity is the key, and it might even happen that she initiates the date if she gets curious enough. Do it slick and like a pro and leave the finale for the end. Girl’s curiosity could be provoked easily, so keep this in mind and use it as an advantage.